What Makes A Man Stand Out?
“The real man smiles in troubles, gathers strength from distress, and grows brave by reflection”
As men, we’re always striving to become a perfect example. We’re doing our best so we can live a happy life. But sometimes, even our best isn’t enough. You walk down the street and you see this gentleman wearing his fancy clothes, riding the car that you’ve always dreamt about, and his gorgeously looking girlfriend next to him and you watch as he drives away in confidence, and all you can think of is “How the f**k did he get all of this?”.
You start comparing your life with his and you end up admitting that you want to become like him someday, but why? Every man has his reasons, maybe it’s because he sees someone more successful than himself, or simply because he thinks life still has more to offer him and he hasn’t experienced the excitement of owning a Yellow Lamborghini yet. But all these fantasies aren’t sufficient to get you anywhere, a bold plan must be made. So, what do you do?
You take Mr. Special man as your source of inspiration and you decide to do your best to become like him. But the question is how? What makes him so special? That’s why I’m here today, to try and figure it out with you.
Being Attractive to Women
You don’t have to be the hot guy who trains daily at the gym in order to impress. Women don’t expect too much from men, they’re just looking for certain qualities. And there are many other things that they look for in a man other than his body.
They look for someone who is funny and always likes having fun, if your conversations are boring or pointless, it’s not going to end up well. That’s why you always need to have an interesting story or topic to grab their attention. And always suggest fun things to do, go for a jog, catch a movie at the cinema, or even go to an amusement park. Having a “Mansified” character will definitely increase your chances.
Confidence plays a major role in making a man attractive, even if you’re not 100% confident all the time, nobody is. But you need to appear as one. It’s never a good sign for a guy to hesitate all the time, it can scare a woman easily.
Loyalty also appeared to be very important to many, when we made our interview with a few college girls and asked them about what makes a man attractive, it was a common trait that they all agreed on. You can check the interview in the video at the end of the article. In short, if you’re not loyal, she might easily replace you with a dog.
Money, Money and more Money
Some men are born rich and some fight their way for it. It’s okay to start with a small amount of money. Many people had their lives turned upside down within only a few months. The secret to that is their ambition.
They decided to earn money and then started searching for the most convenient starting point. You can work part-time, do quick freelance jobs, or even become a full-time employee at a company that you trust. And maybe when you have enough money you can start your own business. So many things one can look forward to. So, dream wide and big. Because if you haven’t you may end up broke, and believe me when I tell you that a decent woman will not like it when you take her to McDonald’s for a dinner date.
When I asked some women, they said that they would prefer to be with someone who has ambitious future plans, doesn’t take no for an answer, and is a brave dreamer.
The Good Look
In order to be a special man, you need to look and smell good. Getting yourself a masculine smelling aftershave that is also not so strong and a decent shower gel isn’t a very complicated task. As long as you shower and you take care of your beard and hair, you’ll look great. Combine these with some nice clean clothes that fit you and look good on you and maybe a nice pair of glasses? Then you can consider the “Elegant Style” mission accomplished.
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Of course, You don’t have to shop at the most expensive brands, only buy what you’re capable of buying. You can’t go broke because you’re trying to look like Mr. Gatsby, that’s just dumb. As long as your outfit looks great and clean, you’re ready to rock.
Apart from the fact that all of the women who participated in the interview favored dating a man with good hygiene, nobody will be comfortable in dealing with someone who doesn’t take care of himself. And there was me thinking that people care about the strong character or the unique personality until I found out in my interviews an ugly truth with a label, “Looks Matter”.
Have fun doing it all
Lastly, don’t let your elegance and pride boost your ego and shun the fun part of you. Being partially mysterious is ok, but don’t let it take over and turn you into a difficult complicated person. You need to be a simple man that is always ready for crazy ideas. Be optimistic and think about the bright future ahead of you.
And one day, you’ll be surprised to see yourself become someone very special, you’ll look back to the man you once were and feel proud of what you’ve become. You’ll be talked about and you might inspire another man, just like you were inspired in the very beginning.
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Ahmed is a content creator who loves working on exotic topics and adding his own perspective and view on it. He loves film-making and dreams about going to Hollywood one day. Traveling is an essential part of his life and he's up for any adventure that comes in his way. Whether it's writing scripts, shooting a film or composing a soundtrack, Ahmed is able to visualize his thoughts through these three talents.