Quintessential sexual fantasies of wives
Don’t miss the secrets of these wives’s sexual fantasies or you will hate yourself later
Sexual fantasies are our body’s natural response to a mental image or pattern of thought that stirs our sexuality and can create sexual desire and arousal. They can be created by imagination, memory, or just triggered by random interaction with people, physical objects or certain surroundings. But they all have one thing in common.
They are the chemical reaction that causes the kind of brain activity the human body can survive very well without, but that hits you when you least expect it. Like a toothache, or being tackled at a friendly football game and remembering that you haven’t been 18 in a while.
But unlike those instances, sexual fantasies are a good thing. Every one of us has their favorite and most of us have tried to make them come true. Being caught by the police having sex on top of the Ronald Regan Medical Center doesn’t count.
Wives, on the other hand, have fantasies that are a bit more specific and not necessary as romantically infused as you might think.
The way wives are portrayed in social stereotypes or your favorite porn film doesn’t do them justice. If you are married you know what we are talking about. The woman a real man loves or would love to love is intelligent, smart, outspoken and worldly-wise. She is a far cry from being just a home-making, cooking, cleaning, child phycologist guru. Women now run businesses, get involved in multiple community projects, cultural and fitness programs, and power broker their way into completely new areas of interest. All that activity is having an exponential effect in the way the mind deals with stress, weariness and sexual desire. The resulting mix is a very hot and enticing cocktail of imagination, desire and spontaneity. One that you best serve shaken and not necessarily stirred.
We seem to think we know all about our wives and that sex is under a complete disclosure amendment with our significant other, but there are always new ways to better ourselves and the connection we have with our partner. After all the less you think you know, the more you understand.
We did a little bit of digging, using dating sites and various studies on sexual behavior. And we thought it was our solemn duty, here at IconicMan to present you with a quick listing of the most interesting sexual fantasies that wives have. All you have to do is put them to good use or somebody else will.
This BDSM kink is a very common fantasy among housewives as it involves a slight trade up between partners. In this scenario, the man is not the one taking charge but the one who relinquishes initiative.
Many women fantasize about being in charge and taking on the dominant role, as that makes them feel more powerful and seductive.
It’s dead easy, it’s great fun and lets you explore your limits and find another sweet spot in your relationship.
Make sure you ease yourselves into the experience. Don’t go bursting into the first sex shop before you have a good talk about it. Let her tie you down, or blindfold you at first and see where you go from there.
It may be surprising but being masturbated always ranks high among the things wives crave the most in bed. It is exactly because masturbating is such an intimate gesture, that sharing it with a man is such a common fantasy. And come to think of it, it bundles such an intense group of kinks, from voyeurism to relinquishing control, that it is perfect for spicing up any sex life.
You should try doing that on a weekend morning (especially after a hot night) and she will love you for it. You will never see her as loose and unrestrained. (extra care should be taken around long sleepers)
Alternately you could do it in a cinema or while at the movies. Place and time are all down to imagination but the connection it will establish will be a lasting one.
This is where all your confidence, instincts and enacting skills will be most tested.
Most women find role-playing very exciting, and there is a good reason for that. This is a kink for wives and couples that want to bring something new to the relationship, but would not go as far as bringing a completely new person into it. Or for people who like regularly adding fresh, cool things into their sex lives. And it is more than flirting on steroids. Role-playing has some links to BDSM and as such, it usually comes with some of its characteristics. One of the partners usually assumes the role of power or authority figure and the other submits. The power imbalance that derives from it is what makes it such a favorite among women.
Make sure you listen to what she would like, choose your part carefully and know your game. Go for something like a Doctor or a State Prosecutor, and work your way up together. You will thank us later.
Being sexually ravaged
Contrary to popular belief this fantasy is not about being submissive as opposed to dominant. It does carry some of the elements and power economics of BDSM, but it is different. Apart from the fact that some women like to be tied down using some form of bondage, most sexually ravaged fantasies mainly depend on the setting, the attitude and the way partners anticipate each other. It is the intensity and prospect of a woman having her clothes ripped off and forcibly taken that takes center stage. It needs to be instinctive, passionate and unforgiving and that is the reason women love it.
Like all the fantasies listed here, you can’t really do them half-way. You need to be completely emotionally connected, sometimes spontaneous, keen on stimulating all her senses, and showing her how much you want it.
Best recommended after a great night out, a workout or before a big presentation. You will both remember it for a long time.
Having sex with another woman
Many housewives have at some point fantasized about being with another woman. Not only did they admit to that on multiple surveys, but the multitude of married women on dating platforms that list themselves as bisexual or bi-curious, stands testimony to that.
If you think your age-old dream has finally come true, you might want to think again. Women that dream about having sex with another woman do not necessarily mention their partner as being part of the action. This is one fantasy that is not centered around your manly attributes unless we are talking about women who like to be watched by their partner while getting it on.
Regardless, you must admit that two women having sex is a form of art and should be treated as such. Admired, encouraged and appreciated. Communicate well enough and you might get a foot in the door.
Other sexual fantasies did not make it to this list. Like having sex with a stranger, having sex with more than three people, or switching partners with a couple that you met for the first time. But these all come down to how well you know yourself and your relationship.
As a modern man, you need to help your relationship grow and work on the sort of communication skills that will help find the best and most pleasant sexual common ground. It will make you both happier and more satisfied.
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